5 Things Pastors Need To Consider About Children’s Ministry

5 Things Pastors Need To Consider About Children’s Ministry

pastorI’ve served in Children’s Ministry for 25+ years in some capacity or another, so I admit I’m a little biased when it comes to the place of this ministry in the church. However, I truly do believe it is one of – if not the – most critically important ministries in the church. At the very least, it is important in it’s own right and deeply impacts every other area of the church.

Unfortunately, I consistently see a lack of value placed on this area of the church by Lead (and Executive) Pastors. My belief is that, with the burden they carry leading the church as a whole, pastors simply haven’t stopped to understand what Children’s Ministry is all about and the very important role it could play in the life of the church as a whole. If you’re a parent, Churches in McKinney, Texas, are passionate about serving the next generation of young Christians in the area.

5 Things Pastors Need To Consider About Children’s Ministry

1. Children’s Ministry serves the most spiritually impressionable group in the church.

This is inarguable. Unfortunately, that spiritual impressionability also comes with snotty noses, dirty diapers, misbehavior and a lot of other things that are less than attractive.

However, if it’s true, this simple fact ought tomake the Pastor’s eyes light up. After all, isn’t this what it’s all about? When the average church sees a very receptive adult group, how do we treat them?

If this is true, how ought it affect how we invest in, develop and grow children’s ministry?

2. Children’s Ministry serves the most spiritually influential group in the church (in case you’re wondering, that would be parents).

Again, there can be little argument against this. Study after study, and all the research done by Barna and other groups, show that parents are the primary spiritual investors in the lives of the most spiritually receptive group in the church.

Want to develop a discipleship program in your church? Start with parents. It’s a God-designed, ready to develop plan just waiting to happen! Want to have long-term impact in spiritual growth and health? Equip parents to invest in the spiritual lives of their children.

If this is true, how ought it affect how we invest in, develop and grow children’s ministry?

3. Children’s Ministry leaders are eager (for the most part) to align and integrate their ministries with the overall vision of the church.

90% or more of the KidMin leaders I speak with tell me this. Unfortunately, well over half say that they either don’t really know the vision of the church, or they don’t seem to have a voice which allows them to effectively connect with leadership and know how to maximize Children’s Ministry in the vision of the church.

If this is true, how ought it to affect how we invest in, develop and grow children’s ministry?

4. Children’s Ministry is hard and needs your support and encouragement.

Children’s Ministry is one of the most challenging, complex ministries to lead in the church, period (read more in this post: Why Is Children’s Ministry So Hard?). It is flat out hard! Leading in children’s ministry can be very isolating. There is no other ministry (typically) that demands a presence at virtually every service and function of the church. There is no other ministry which serves so many people with such a diversity of needs. There is no other ministry which leads the number of people considered the most difficult group to lead – volunteers. And yet church leadership often places inexperienced, untrained leaders (but with great hearts!) over this area in the church, and expects them to lead with little practical support.

Children’s Ministry leaders need to know that you understand them, believe in them and support them. Pastors who don’t actively engage in encouraging their children’s ministry leaders do a disservice to them and the entire church. A simple note, a quick call of encouragement, or a pat on the back and “I’m praying with you for Children’s Ministry” can go a very, very long way.

If this is true, how ought it to affect how we invest in, develop and grow children’s ministry?

5. Children’s Ministry can dramatically impact the health and growth of your church if you invest in it properly.

In fact, I tell pastors that “you can’t have a healthy church if you don’t have a healthy ministry to children”, and I believe that with all of my heart. So, do you know what a healthy children’s ministry looks like? Do you understand how Children’s Ministry can impact the rest of the church? Do you see the growth potential for the entire church when Children’s Ministry is invested in properly?

Simple things like investing in leadership development with the children’s ministry team, providing an adequate budget (chances are your Children’s Ministry budget is no where near in proportion to other departments), and giving them an equal spot at the leadership table with other department heads will go a long way toward tapping in to the growth potential provided by Children’s & Family Ministry.

If this is true, how ought it to affect how we invest in, develop and grow children’s ministry?

What else do pastors need to consider about Children’s Ministry?

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Greg Baird
Founder of Children's Ministry Leader at Children's Ministry Leader
My passion is seeing the lives of children transformed. I believe the best way to do that is to equip leaders in the local church to serve children, volunteers and parents to invest in the lives of children at church and in the home. That?s what we do here at Children?s Ministry Leader ? equip leaders to create healthy Children?s & Family Ministry.
I serve as the Vice President of Global Resources in the Global Mission department at David C. Cook.

I love what I do as it is the outflow of 25 years of ministry experience as Children?s, Family & Administrative Pastor, consultant, trainer, speaker and short-term missions leader.

3 Responses to 5 Things Pastors Need To Consider About Children’s Ministry

  1. It’s one thing for a Pastor to say “I support what you do” in the hallway. It’s another thing to show public support. Pastors need to show support from the pulpit. If the Pastor is supportive publicly, it automatically creates a culture of collective congregational support.

  2. Hi Brother Greg, greetings in Jesus Name. I am Ravi from Hyderabad. Staff in J127 program, I think you remember you came to Hyderabad and also we met in Bangalore.
    5 points are wonderful for the church to think and develop.
    Thank you
    Ravi

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Stop begging trying to fill the needs in your ministry! IF people respond, it will likely be only short term. Obligatory service doesn’t inspire people to stick around.

Instead, understand the grand vision we are pursuing by investing in children’s lives for eternity!

Practice articulating that vision and start sharing it in every conversation. It’s a privilege and honor to be part of such important service, so INVITE people into that opportunity.

And, of course, never forget the foundation for building our team, found in Luke 10:2: “These were his [Jesus’] instructions to them: ‘The harvest is great, but the workers are few. So pray to the Lord who is in charge of the harvest; ask him to send more workers into his fields.’”


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As the kids run to their waiting parents after church on Sunday morning, is that where the impact ends?

Or does the conversation continue at home throughout the week?

Hopefully the answer is the latter. If it’s not, it’s probably because we aren’t engaging and equipping parents to continue the conversation.

And that’s a problem.

Parents are the primary spiritual investors in a child’s life. Good or bad, this is almost always true.

As Children’s Ministry Leaders, our primary role ought to be to “equip God’s people” (Ephesians 4:12). In our case, I believe that means equip our team to invest in the children of our ministry, and to equip the parents of those children to continue the conversations at home.

If you aren’t engaging & equipping parents to continue the conversations that begin at church, then your ministry is incomplete.

If you are engaging and equipping parents, share an example in the comments of how you do that so the rest of us can learn from you.





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We always hear that children and youth are the church of tomorrow.

Yes, they are.

But they are also part of the church of today.

They are the group most receptive to the Gospel. They are the group most responsive to discipleship.

They also typically represent the largest group in the church, and the one with the most peripheral impact (volunteers, parents, etc).

They are the most vulnerable, physically, spiritually, emotionally and mentally.

Why on earth would we ever think we could “babysit” this group while “real ministry” happens with adults?

The truth is, many (most?) churches are not as healthy or strong as they could be because they lack a thriving focus on perhaps the very group that should receive the greatest focus.

You cannot have a healthy church without a healthy ministry to children and families.

Agree?






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